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PULLING YOURSELF INTO A GREAT RELATIONSHIP
Rinatta Paries, Relationship Coach |
There are times in our lives when we feel our goals and desires pulling us forward. Other times we feel as though we are pushing to reach our goals.
To be pulled forward by a goal makes it more likely that you will achieve it. When you are pulled forward, serendipity happens, doors open, things seem easier. It becomes more possible to achieve the things you want.
A goal pulls you forward when achieving it does not create an internal conflict of interest. A goal pulls you forward when it snugly fits who you are and what you want. A goal pulls you forward when realizing it seems likely.
If your goal, your desire, does not meet at least once of the above criteria, you will find yourself pushing toward your goal rather than being pulled by it. Pushing toward a goal may still make it happen. But you will be struggling, losing faith, getting disappointed and hopeful intermittently, and expending a lot of energy in the process. You may walk away in frustration before you achieve what you want.
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| (c) Rinatta Paries, 1998-2002. Do you know how to attract your ideal mate? Do you know how to build a fulfilling relationship, or how to reinvent yours to meet your needs? Relationship Coach Rinatta Paries can teach you the skills and techniques to attract and sustain long-term, healthy partnerships. Visit www.WhatItTakes.com where you'll find quizzes, classes, advice and a free weekly ezine. Become a "true love magnet(tm)! |
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